As I Soften

As I soften, I realize life is so much more than the effort I put into it.  As I soften, I realize that love is all that matters.  As I soften, I am coming to love myself as I do my husband, my children, my grandchildren and my friends, treating myself as the greatest love of my life.  As I soften, I feel a tenderness toward myself and others.  I am cultivating a deeper appreciation of the differences that, rather than separating us, actually draw us into communion.  As I soften, I am listening to the other’s Soul rather than just hearing the words. As I soften, I have less fear and more joy.  I do not want to die, but I accept its ultimate inevitability.  I am, as we all are, infinite and, at the same time, mortal.

““We do not need to grieve for the dead. Why should we grieve for them? They are now in a place where there is no more shadow, darkness, loneliness, isolation, or pain. They are home.”  John O’Donohue

As soften, any illusion of a perfect world or perfect health falls away.  What is left you may ask?  The mystery of life filled with wonder, intimacy and compassionate forgiveness.

each day is a gift_life after cancer

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  1. I’ve been spending some time with your beautiful writing. You make me realize how pointless it is to worry about most of the things that consume our minds and attention on a daily basis but you also make me optimistic about the possibilities that exist once I convince myself to redirect. When I know people have a burden, such as with their health, I tell them I am praying for them to have comfort and peace. I think you, however, have more peace than anyone I’ve ever known! so I’ll just pray open-ended for you that you have whatever it is you might need, whenever you need it, all the time. Thank you for sharing all that you do.

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