My husband Jimmy is Jewish. He was born a Jew and practiced reform Judaism as a child and maybe even as a teenager. At age 10 he went to a Jewish summer camp, Camp Nebagamon. He does not attend temple now nor does he know the dates of the Jewish holidays. Neither here nor there, just is what it is. How did I get started on this?
Oh I remember. His friend, David Eppstein, is here visiting. He recently retired and is taking his inaugural road trip, destination not determined, but plenty of places to stop along the way. So he arrived today and is staying with us on this Easter weekend. I have told my friends here in Memphis that our Jewish relatives have come for Easter. Okay Good. I hear Eppie now giving Jimmy a blow-by-blow of his travels this past week.
Now I like doing this kind of writing. Writing about something that is happening in the present moment. Not in the past, not about the future, but a word-photo essay on the present moment. Eppie talking. Jimmy listening. Me writing. Each here together in this house, but in a deeper sense alone sharing space and time together. I like it. I like having people in the house. I do not have to be in the room with them to enjoy their company.
So back to my husband who is Jewish. I love my husband. Pops. That is what our grand-daughter calls him, Pops. I love Pops. My Jewish Pops. He cannot fix things. He can’t. His friend, Eppie, who is here now, can. He is going to grout our bathroom faucet, hang a towel rack, and tighten the back door handle. Originally he was planning to stay a week. I am disappointed that he will only be here 2 days. If he stayed longer I would have him replace shower curtain rods, and maybe completely remodel our bathroom. Yeah. That would be great.
My husband cannot do that, but he makes a damn good cup of coffee. Love that man. My Jewish husband who will be canoeing on Easter Sunday while I am eating chocolate bunnies.